There is a famous Medrash that Avraham sees a burning buidling and says that there MUST be a leader of this building. Hashem calls to Avraham and he says "I am the one who owns this building".
The Ishbitzer [see his first Torah in Lech Lecha] understands that Hashem is saying to Avraham that if YOU are asking this question then YOU are the MAN. לך לך - go to yourself. Go to that voice inside yourself that calls you to Me.
This is a GREAT teaching for life. The very fact that you are struggling with a certain issue is in itself the answer to the struggle.
I can't expand now. Think about it....